Well, I was right! But what I didn’t realize was, if you don’t bother them they won’t bother you. “We all have that one shy friend and, yes, don’t let the pictures fool you – I’m extremely shy! And I thought it was going to be like the club scenes I saw in tv shows like Will & Grace, Noah’s Arc, or The L Word where the dancers ran around naked and tried to give you a lap dance the whole night. Seeing Naked Men & Women (GoGo Dancers/Strippers) So, we surveyed 6 people on what their fears were the first time they attended a gay or lesbian bar/club. We want a way to help other members of our community and our family and friends understand that hey, we all have these fears and all it takes is just an ounce of courage to go out there and be yourself. Where do you go? How do you dress? What if someone I know sees me? What if security spots my fake I.D? Those are just some of the thoughts that cross the minds of gays everywhere when making their decisions. We all know that there are many hard parts of being an LGBTQ person, but then we recall that one time we went to a gay club for the first time.