He says he gets tested after he goes but I'm not sure how frequently he does this. So, a few questions: Should I support my BF around exploring his sexuality? Does he even need to explore this? Do you think this is a kink or a part of his sexual orientation or both? And how can I personally protect myself from STIs? He says that they don't use condoms in glory holes. I wouldn't have any problems with this-I dated women for ten years prior to him-but he emphatically swears he's straight and often points out that he doesn't like gay porn, he doesn't like to see gay men being affectionate, etc. However, the amount that he jokes about being gay, giving blowjobs, etc., makes me think he might be gay or bisexual and is coming to terms with his sexuality. Then out of the blue this week he said that he had lied and actually likes to go to glory holes occasionally-but only to give blowjobs, never to get them. I asked him if he had ever been to one, and he said no. My boyfriend really likes glory hole porn.